[Monty knows what he wants to say... but it's probably not the right thing.]

In truth, I would bury the whole affair and never speak of it or think on it again. But I know that is not possible. Perhaps... an agreement to revisit what would be best for us each month? That way we continue to talk, but if we come to a point where we decide it is no longer necessary, we'll have the chance to come to that decision together.